Karachi ( web disk ) - Pakistani muashra ikhlaqi tor par inhitat ka shikaar hai jis ke sabab muashray mein juraim ki sharah
be panah barh gayi hai jin mein srِfhrst bachon ke sath sarzad honay walay jinsi juraim hain .
bachon ke sath zayad-ti ke beshtar waqeat umooman report nahi ho paate lekin guzashta do saal mein jitne bhi waqeat report
hue hain un mein aik baat qdrِ mushtarik hai ke mujrim umooman woh afraad nikaltay hain jin par walidain ya bacha khud bhrosa karta hai
jaisay ke koi qareebi Aziz ya ahal mohala waghera .
is sangeen jurm ki rok thaam ke liye zurori hai ke bachon ko kuch baatein ahteyati tadabeer ko tor par sikhayi jayen aur
walidain khud bhi apne bachon ki sar garmion par sakht nazar rakhen chahay woh abhi kamsin hon ya taaza taaza snِ baloghat ko
puhanche hon .
apni bachon bilkhushoos baityon ko khabardaar karen ke kabhi kisi ki goad mein nah bathain chahay woh un ke qareebi rishte daar
kyun nah hon .
jaisay hi aap ke bachay do saal ki Umar ko pohnchain un ke samnay libaas tabdeel karna tark kar dein aur un ka libaas bhi
tanhai mein tabdeel karayen .
kabhi kisi barray ko ijazat nah den ke woh aap ke bachay ko' meri biwi' ya' mera shohar' keh kar pukare ya degar kisi
qisam ke romanvi alqabaat aap ke bachay ke liye istemaal kere .
jab bhi aap ka bacha apne doston ke hamrah khailnay ke liye bahar jaye to yeh aap ki zimma daari hai ke is par nazar
rakhen ke woh kis qisam ke logon mein ghulta milta hai aur kaisay khelon mein dilchaspi rakhta hai .
agar aap ka bacha kisi barray ke sath kahin bahar jaane mein ya tanhai mein waqt guzaarne mein hchkchata hai to kabhi bhi usko
majaboor nah karen balkay wajah maloom karne ki koshish karen ke bacha aisa kyun karta hai, sath hi sath yeh bhi nazar rakhen
ke kahin aap ka bacha kisi makhsoos barri Umar ke shakhs ki sohbat pasand to nahi karta .
agar bachay ke ravayye mein kisi bhi qisam ki tabdeeli mehsoos karen to usay nazar andaaz mat karen balkay koshish karen ke
mukhtalif noiyat ke sawalaat ke zariye aap is tabdeeli ki wajah jaan payen .
jab aap ke bachay snِ baloghat ko pounchanay lagen to inhen jinsi mamlaat se mutaliq durust aagahi faraham karen, yaad rakhen agar aap apne bachon kokhod yeh sabaq nahi parhen ge to phir muashra inhen jinsi mamlaat ki ghalat aur be Hooda nafsiyat se roshnaas krade ga .
bachon ko koi bhi nai kitaab ya video material ( cartoon, movie waghera ) dikhaane se pehlay aik bawajud zaroor parhen ya
dekhye aur sath hi sath kibl par' PG control' rkhye. na sirf yeh balkay apne halqa ahbaab mein bhi un tamam afraad
par yahi iqdamaat karne purzor dijiye jin ke bachon se aap ke bachay musalsal mlitay hain .
jaisay hi aap ke bachay teen saal ki Umar ko pohnchain inhen jism ke makhsoos aaza ko dhoney ka tareeqa skhayin aur
sath mein yeh hadaayat bhi karen kabhi kisi ko un hisson ko chone ki ijazat nah day chahay woh aap khud kyun nah hon .
aap ko apni muashrat mein kuch tabdeelian karna hon gi, aisay mawaad aur ashkhaas ko apni zindagi se kharij kar dein jo ke aap
ke masoom bachon ke zehan prksi manfi tor nazar andaaz hosakay .
agar aap ka bacha kisi makhsoos shakhs ke baray mein shikayat karta hai to is muamlay mein khamoshi hargiz ikhtiyar nah
kijiyej .
apne ghar ka mahol mazhabi rkhye aur bachon ko ibadat aur ibadat gaahon se manoos krayie taa ke unkay khayalat mein
pakizgee ki ameezash hoti rahay .
khuda nakhusta agar kisi bachay ke sath koi saneha paish ajata hai to usay dantna maarna to daur ki baat balkay mordِalzam
bhi nah balkay intahi mulaimat aur pyar se usay samjhen ke is muamlay mein uski koi ghalti nahi hai aur
yeh ke woh is ka assar apne zehan par hargiz nah le .
yaad rkhye ke aap ke bachay be hadd qeemti hain aur un ki hifazat karna aap ki sab se ahem zimma daari hai lehaza muashray se khaufzadah hue baghair apne bachon ki tarbiyat sahih khutoot par kijiyej .
