New York : aksar shadi karte hue yeh baat zehen mein rakhi jati hai ke aurat aur mard ke darmiyan Umar ka kitna farq hai. hamaray haan yeh riwaj bohat taizi se maqboliat pachka hai ke aurat ki Umar mard se kam az kam paanch saal kam honi chahiye warna shadi kamyaab nahi hoti
lekin haal hi mein ki gayi tehqeeq mein yeh baat samnay aayi hai ke agar aurat aur mard ke darmiyan Umar ka farq barhta jaye to un ke darmiyan Talaq honay ki sharah bhi barhti jati hai .
zaroori nahi ke mard ki Umar ziyada ho aur aurat ki Umar kam tab hi shadi kamyaab ho gi balkay agar dono ki Umar barabar ya intehai thora farq ho tab bhi shadi ke kamyaab honay ke imkanaat ziyada hi hotay hain .
tehqeeq mein 3, 000 shadi shuda aur Talaq Yafta joron ko shaamil kya gaya aur yeh baat samnay aayi ke agar aurat aur mard ke darmiyan Umar ka farq aik saal ( mard aurat se aik saal bara ya chhota ho sakta hai ) ho to un mein Talaq honay ka teen feesad chance mojood hai .
agar dono ke darmiyan Umar ka farq paanch saal tak ho to Talaq honay ka imkaan 18 feesad ho jata hai lekin agar yahi farq 10 saal par chala jaye to 39 feesad imkaan hai ke aisay joron mein Talaq hojaye gi .
mahireen ka kehna hai ke zaroori nahi ke har shadi jis mein Umar ka farq ziyada ho ka bura injaam ho lekin behtar hai shadi karte hue Umar ka khayaal rakha jaye aur koshish ki jaye ke yeh farq kam se kam ho .
lekin haal hi mein ki gayi tehqeeq mein yeh baat samnay aayi hai ke agar aurat aur mard ke darmiyan Umar ka farq barhta jaye to un ke darmiyan Talaq honay ki sharah bhi barhti jati hai .
zaroori nahi ke mard ki Umar ziyada ho aur aurat ki Umar kam tab hi shadi kamyaab ho gi balkay agar dono ki Umar barabar ya intehai thora farq ho tab bhi shadi ke kamyaab honay ke imkanaat ziyada hi hotay hain .
tehqeeq mein 3, 000 shadi shuda aur Talaq Yafta joron ko shaamil kya gaya aur yeh baat samnay aayi ke agar aurat aur mard ke darmiyan Umar ka farq aik saal ( mard aurat se aik saal bara ya chhota ho sakta hai ) ho to un mein Talaq honay ka teen feesad chance mojood hai .
agar dono ke darmiyan Umar ka farq paanch saal tak ho to Talaq honay ka imkaan 18 feesad ho jata hai lekin agar yahi farq 10 saal par chala jaye to 39 feesad imkaan hai ke aisay joron mein Talaq hojaye gi .
mahireen ka kehna hai ke zaroori nahi ke har shadi jis mein Umar ka farq ziyada ho ka bura injaam ho lekin behtar hai shadi karte hue Umar ka khayaal rakha jaye aur koshish ki jaye ke yeh farq kam se kam ho .